Friday, June 13, 2008

Title: What Happens when you find it..



Before i met my dear, those that know me well would know that pretty much where i go or what i do, i go and do it alone..catch a movie, shop and etc..laugh if you want to..but its the truth..i never realie find it odd to do those things alone though frds would ask, "kau giler pe jln sorng2?"...


Well..to be honest..it was already at the point where i would say..."hey..if she comes along, she will come..if not..well...its ok..i try to make it on my own." kinda thing...when you cross a street and see a lonely gurl or walk into a bookstore and find a lady searching for a book alone..it did crossed my mind back then that maybe this person is lonely as well and a simple hi or hello would make 2 less lonely ppl then....haha...but never realie went up to any of them..lol.


Never realie thought that a soul out there would actually send a smile one day and that made a whole lot of different..the late nite talks,the jokes, the songs that we sang and many more..n as time goes by and the more i know of her, i am loving this person more and more each day,

Like the saying goes...it comes when u least expect it..


What started from a smile turned into smthin more than i expected..n the other day, while watchin my dear long awaited movie..sex and the city..this qns came from part of the movie..."what happens when we find it?" I never realie understood that cos well, my dear is the 1st for sure and while back then i would ponder on "who is she going to be? when is she coming?"..i never realie thought about..what happens when you find it..


SO what happens when we find it?..It refers to love in this context..the answer is a discovery and is a journey i have to say..For one thing i know,im loving tis fiery yet fragile soul and having a love return is indeed a great feeling..


We let it grow, we nuture it, understand it..dats what i found out..when two different souls meet wif differences in opinion, we try to understand why or where each others stand comes from..we try to understand why or what would hurt our partner and avoid it..avoid hatred, grudges or resentment and nuture and let it grow from the basis that brought two together..


love has a whole lot of meaning behind it..it has different interpretation to many..if spoken but unshown has little meaning.spoken but unshown has little value..if shown but unsaid..might leave one wondering whats the expressions all about..love won't grow if not sowed..just like a seed, w/o air, water or the sun it just a seed..

what is the measurement of love? what do we compare it to?the answer comes to the things we do for our partner..the things we do are the expression of our love to our partner..some might compare it to the sea, to the sky or anything that is infinite but what i find out is that it is the things e do for our love ones. A mother's endless love to a child for instance-where she sacrifies herself to give the best for her child..washing the clothes,feeding the child and many more..that is her expression of love for her child.A wife's love for her husband - taking care of his meal, clothings and many more... So just like a mothers love to a child or a wife to a husband, at the end of the day it is what we do , give and work for, for the benefit of our partner and the relationship is the measurement of love..give endlessly thats where love becomes unconditional.Touching and caressing which are also expression of love will come naturally when all is in place.

Accepting one flaws , respect and forgiving our partners for their limitations,speaking words of kindness and encouraging our other half to do their best..the list goes on n on n probably endless when it comes to showing how much we love some1.

well, for me i did told my dear that in this relationship, i would like to see us grow and move forward as a couple and as individuals as well...i would like her to try to push beyond her limitations or overcome her fears and see what she can achieve thru it with my support and vice versa..i believe in myself more wif her beside me..its amazing what the power of love can do..i am no expert in this love thing..i see,feel and analyse it...n try to understand why we are who we are when we are in love..

to my dear,

Its about 9 more days to our engagement..yes,we've been busy preparing things here and there as well as looking around for the big event..plus with the business that we are starting together and our daily work, it can be pretty tiring at the end of the day and stress might get to either of us..but rest assure dear, i wont leave you walking thru all these alone..we will priorities our things and get things more settled..build and move towards our common dreams..we take it step by step and i believe we can do it just like how we finished your room..keep in mind that i love you and i wont give up should things get tuff for us ahead..slowly but surely we will achieve what we both dreamt of...insyallah..i love you..


to all,

may you all be blessed with the love of your love ones always- be it from HIM ,our mom, dad, siblings or our other half..what happens next is a journey.

Space out..

me

Rest My CaSe at 2:25 AM



Monday, June 02, 2008

Title: 31st May 2008



Who says as you grow older, birthdays gets boring or it becomes "just another day"? Well, my dear certainly proved that birthdays are not just about getting old or "just another day"...glimpse of what happens on 31st May this year..certainly one birthday i will NEVER forget...surprises after surprises...plus all the personal touches...i realie enjoyed the day..below are some of the events dat took place on dat day...thanks dear..




























Above:Surprise 1 - Pretending to ask me to look for her socks before giving me the present





























above: Wif her personal touch to the gift.I love this gift.
















Left: The 3 things she gave for "FUN"
wich was needed for the Amazing Race...







































Above:As a punishment for stealing her heart,i had to run around Sentosa with this cuffs on...


Birthday EVe - 30th may 2008


Ok..start wif the birthdays' eve..it was a lil disappointing when she suddenly went like " Tomorrow your birthday rite?"...arghh..thought she forgotten it and she told me that shes working on my birthday!!!


31st May at the stroke of midnite...

how cleverly she tricked me into making me find her socks before the Sex and the City movie at the back of the car when she already hid the present there!! Its a board wif all our pictures on it..has that personal touch to it...n i luv the poem dear!!!!! thank you so much for that!!!!


( the present is pix number 2 above)


31st May...morning till 2pm..


called her but my dear rejected my call claiming she was busy at work!!! till pukul 2 petang..when she msg..

" Dear ,Go and check your wallet"...

and inside was a note saying..."YOU GOT MAIL!!"


that was exciting..i swear to anyone on that..it came as a surprised and i was like "when did she put dat in?!"


Fasster than the speed of light and a speeding bullet ( step mcm Superman eh? lol)...RUsh to the PC to check my mail tapi takde apape..fikir punya fikir..ahhhh..i finally went down to check my mail box..n there it was..


an ENVELOPE wif a card saying that stealing her heart is a crime , a cluecard and a cuff!!!!Arghh!!! it just got more n more exciting..


haha...

CLue num 1: Where is "down under" of Singapore? SMS your ans to 9XXXXXXX.







Instructions: Put on those cuffs hop on to a cab n proceed to down-under.







O yah, i was supposed to send her photos of me wif those cuffs tightly on to her before proceeding.. Once i got the green light..off to SENTOSA!!!!!!!!!!!

Secret: kinky to put on those cuffs and have your imagination run wild...lol


CLue num2 : what are the 3 things i gave you for fun?Bring them.

(Apa lagi..lincah kaduk pack all the 3 things my dear gave me n ciao from there..)

What are the things...Pen wif a clown face, Magnifyign glass and a tissue...pixs above..:)



CLue num 3: Align at any station, take a tram to tanjung beach. Take a photo of yourself in those cuff on the tramp.MMS your photo to 9XXXXXXX.







haha...ok..stopped at pahlawan beach and waited for the tram.haha..ok..felt a mix of amazing race plus prison break tryin to conceal the cuffs till i reached tanjong beach for the next clue...







CLue 4: Search for the wooden staircase and you'll find your next clue there...







LAri to the other side till the end mcm nak rak...only to find out that its on the end of the other side...hari pun nak hujan..so jogged back to the other side sampai nampak the wooden staircase..hah...ni part...turun naik tu tangga yng ppppppppppppaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannjaaaaaaaaaanggggg 5 kali baru jumpa the clue!!!! (u tak baik hide the clue tempat mcm tu..lol)...Pat belakang tangga rupanya!!! ade cangkung mcm orng nak "beyak" cari bawak tangga...haha... cuaca pun dah hujan by then n jeans dah basah!!!haha..







last clue..ni clue tak boleh direct sgt...so gonna just say..

last clue: where it all happened?...

tapi ni wording punya lah kecik!!!n i then noe kenapa my dear bagi tu magnifying glass and a pen the tissue..Magnifying glass to read the clue wording yng kecik mcm anak2 semut, tulis answer pat dat clue n lap peluh before pegi claim my price!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!







Apa lagi..dah tahu the answer..lari to the place where it all happened!!ni tempat kenangan punya...only me n my dear will know kan kan kan?...:) n there she was sitting under the hut...she turned n tilt her head before smiling (i love it when she does dat!!i swear on that!!!)

n biler dah sampai...haha...hugged her, kissed her n squeeze my priceless price n n there she was holding the keys to my cuffs..

what more can i ask for..wif hershe brought along a nice picnic basket wif her home cooked lasagne, spaghetti, some nice cold drink and a cake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!so we spent our time eating n talking after that..:)







I dont know what she went thru or how much she spent on all tis..but on my side...







cab fare to sentosa : $23.50



entrance : $2.00



well...dats all i spent..haha...but one thing for sure...scroll down...



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dah sampai pun....knowing that she put all her effort and she loves me...nothings beat that feeling...like they say..some things are just priceless...







TO my dear sweetheart: I realie want to say thank you for making my birthday special..it was realie a surprise..the whole thing...i love playing the game you put up on that day..it was realie an unforgetable 1st time...for above evrything else...thank you for being part of my life, making me smile,laugh and all the great moments we share..i would not trade you for anyone or anything else n i thank HIM for sending you to me...thank you dear ..and i love you..

luv,

me..











to all..space out..







i will post the pix..on my next blog...but for more pixs...click on "my dear" on my link there...







space out all..

me

Rest My CaSe at 6:19 PM