Sunday, October 19, 2008
Title: Kursus Bimbingan Rumah Tangga..
Went to the pre-marital marriage course near bugis yeasterday at Apkim and and i have to say that it was a good session...choose yng personal or one to one session and in there sume orng..was a lil late and almost cldnt make due to some reason..
the 1st session was the one to one session with the ustazah,,in there learnt a lot of things about the challenges newly wed might face,the roles and responsibilities of wife and husband further in depth..ways of maintaining a happy and healthy marriage, abouyt finance and many more...
i enjoyed the 1st session a lot as it was interactive..also we were given chance to express ourselves to each other about what we think of our couple and how we view marriage...tapi pat dlm pun ngantokj jugak actually..haha..(maklumlah tido pukul 5 pagi the the before..was tossing arnd the whole nite and lepas tu bgn pukul 7 lagi).._anyway...
2nd session was a group session..learn about communication and few other things...part ni..the ustazah remind us of some1..haha..reminded me of my dear,aunt- mak Ude...the moment she spoke..MAk Ude came to mind..cara dia bual, gaya and esp biler dia bual English... sume sama...enjoyable session even though dia byk sidetrack sikit....
Kesian jugak tgk ustazah ni..she lost her son on 13 th spetember 08...his son kena hit and run...so i think most of the time when she spoke about her son as example..part of me knows that its by speaking and talking about it that we get thru it....
the second session was lebih kelakar sikit lah as yup..the ustazah was funny..the way she teased each couple and all dat..made it enjoyable...
o well..it ended at 6pm yesterday and lepas tu me and my dear went home as we were tired...i was fighting hard to stay awake..maklumlah..tak sampai 2 jam aje tido..tido kejap plus tak mkn betul and otak ni busy prepapring for my upcoming final test...pening pening..haha...
mcm mane pening pun..i enjoyed the day yesterday...lagi lagi biler dpt cert..hahaha
to my dear,as time goes by, i realised that we face more challenges..please do not feel like giving up when things do not go our way or when we face any obstacles and setbacks..i need you to be by my side...you are my backbone in this journey..i love you lots and i always pray for us after my prayers..Insyallah wif His will and us working together..we will eventually be there and succeed..i also promise i will work hard on this new job when i start and will do my best to bimbing and guide us to succeed as how we learn and how you hope for yesterday...insyallah.. amin..me
Rest My CaSe at 12:14 PM
Friday, October 10, 2008
Title: Recession
Hmm...read the news today...and its official that Singapore will be in recession after 6 yrs..GDP expected to drop to 3% and our PM warns Singaporean to be prepare for "rough" rides ahead...been watching the Stock market closely as well..even with the interest rate cuts , most are stilll dwn..must be due to the sentiments of fear by investors..Call for worry?...yes and a lil i supposed..maybe more of planning effectively to curb this period..market always falls 6-10 yrs...dats the pattern if we notice...last Asia recession was 1998..and think on 2000 economy fell again due to China was it?..didnt remember the facts realie well there..Im planning ahead as well..reviewing monie matters especially..making the right move and call is always critical..being ignorant wont help at this age where we are affected by whats to come and will only end us in trouble..what we plan and the move we make will play a role in our money matters..."dont bite off more than what we can chew"...dats the golden rule to remember..do not buy things you cant afford to pay off esp,stop with the swiping of credit cards and rolling it over to next mth...realie realie calculate what we can or cannot afford to avoid trouble..anohter golden rule is..."never take for granted our job will always be there"...NTUC warns singaporean retrenchment and pay cuts are to be expected in this period...hmm...so having spare cash to last another few mths in times of retrencement and emergency is also essential...thus,having a proper budget is important...brought a pkt of milo and it cost a dollar!!!bloody hell..so expensive..used to be 80 or 90 cents if im right..o well..nothing much rite now except preparing to start smthin new soon..cant wait to be out there..and also preparing things for next year..what is it?..haha..it be a surprise...gtg now..probly later i go to granny house to take a look on how she is..esp after news that my aunt diagnosed wif cancer came out...a lil shout out to my frds..
kai: thanks for lunch yesterday...it was nice catching up wif you bro...ansar: sibukkkk betul kau eh?..one day kita tiga duduk minum teh and bual2 k..dah lama tak jumpa 3 of us...lan: thanks bro for the info tadi when i called..to rest: have a gd day ahead...last and not least..to my dearest angel, siti arfah..
we stand together in this preparation k dear..dats what we need to do..battle will be half lost if we cant work together..half won when we work as one...ppl always say we look good together rite?..we show them we dont only look good but we are indeed good together..i love you dear..space out...
me
Rest My CaSe at 3:58 PM
Friday, October 03, 2008
title:Salam Lebaran
Tunggu punya tunggu, akhirnya tiba juga harinya..i did say not looking forward to it soo much but it wasnt that bad..will be starting something new soon..some opportunity here and there...hari pun not soo bad..mkn mkn mkn..haha..perut ni boleh masuk pulak...baju tahun ni "perper"...n baju yng korang nampak pat gamabr ni was chosen by my dear..samping last year punya..chosen by her as well...gambar tak tunjuk capal nye...tu pun last yr nye..so sume lah last yr..kereta aje every yr tukar!!!kaya aku!!!KAYA!!!...haha..kereta sewa lah katakan...insyallah duit lebih kita beli vios k dear?...haha..anyway,makin besar ni..dewasa ni..dah payah nak "wa wa" sgt..haha..lawa2 i mean...yng penting orng2 yng aku sayang sume dpt what they want..o yah...n 1st time ah this yr..lepas dekat 26 tahun..baru tempah baju..dulu sume baju jolok2..tu pun my dear recommend tempah baju..promote kedai nye sikit ye?..Exclusively yours Ratianah.....pinkish peach..lawa2..besok pakai eh b?....anyway...nak amek my dear from work before gi course...to all..Selamat hari Raya!!!to my dear...:) i pick you up later k dear...love you..
space out all..
me
Rest My CaSe at 4:34 PM
