Sunday, April 12, 2009

Title: Sometimes when we touch...

Never overlook the power of touch..proven by numerous research - they have shown that touch is a powerful tool that heals emotionally and spiritually.

Babies that are hugged, held and kissed develop healthier emotional life than those that are left without any physical contact. A physical touch between two lovers can make or break a relationship.Touch communicates love or hate. The message a touch sends out is far louder than the words "I love you" or "I hate you"..it is an action that speaks itself..whether its holding hands, kissing, embracing or more it speaks the emotional love to one's partner. To most, without it, one may feel unloved..With it, the emotional tank is filled and they will feel much more secure..

I remember reading this article in a column where a husband and a wife withdrew themselves sexually due to some martial problems and whatever the wife or husband did, they cld never convince each other that he/she really loved her/him..what the writer (who is a therapist) found out was that to some, the other things meant "sex" as well...when either one is sexually responsive, the other would feel secure in the partners love..when the wife withdrew from him sexually,none of the wife culinary skill cld convince the husband that she really loves him..and vise versa...nothing the husband did cld convince the wife that he really loved her..what it conclude was--nothing cld ever substitute what one considered to be "love"- physical touch of each other.

Thru the example above, it explains why do in times of crisis we hug one another...it is this physical touch that is a communicator of love.,in times of crisis, more than anything we need to feel loved. Certain things and events,cant be changed, but we can survive if we feel loved. The most important thing you can do for your partner to love him/her in times of crisis. The words may mean a little but it is your physical touch that tells your partner or love ones that you care. That gentle and kind touch will be remembered for long time even after the crisis but the absence of that touch may not be forgotten.

To many of us, we yearn and long for our partners to reach out to us emotionally and physically. Simple gestures running thru the hair, giving a back rub,massage ,holding hands or even making love and other "love touches" are the emotional lifeline of a person.It is that physical touch that heals emotionally..

To readers, never ever leave our the importance of physical touch to your love ones..Becos at the end of the day...a touch always speaks a lot more than just "i love you"...one can "fly" without wings when the emotional tank is filled up..as the saying goes from the movie jerry maguire...if the heart is empty, the head does not matter any more..so love you love ones, caress them or touch them,and to some extend it will heal and deepens your relationship.

Im no love guru..but whatever i write are my thoughts and what i usually see thru others, feel or from my own experience..have a gd day reading this..

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Rest My CaSe at 9:52 AM